Spending time with your Husband

I've found out that spending time with everyone and getting the housework done is impossible. We've started working together after the kids are to bed. It's nice to be able to talk with him without yelling at the kids, telling them to stop fighting. I remember before the kids that we loved to just sit and talk about how our days went and what we want to accomplish. I enjoy being me. Don't get me wrong, I love my children, teaching them, singing with them and reading to them. But, it's nice to laugh and joke and smooch. I love being Husband and Wife.